A Gender-Neutral Playlist

October 13, 2023

Looking For a Gender-Neutral Playlist For LGBT+ Weddings? 

Even in modern days, it’s hard to find gender-neutral romance songs, let alone a gender-neutral wedding playlist. The world is so binary, especially in the mainstream media. But you’re on the LGBTQIA+ spectrum and as such, you want/demand/hope for something that is a bit more unique.

Especially for your wedding! Who wants to listen to hours and hours of songs, irritated by the constant “hims” and “hers.” Some songs are amazing, but your partner is trans.

Do those pronouns even apply?

“They” hasn’t really hit the mainstream music industry, so it’s high time to find the perfect gender-neutral wedding playlist that will feel even more special for you and your LGBT+ partner. 

I scoured the internet for resources, and after spending way too long slogging my way through good and terrible songs, I decided to come up with a Spotify playlist for those looking for awesome gender-neutral wedding songs!

I also steadfastly avoided the majority of over-popular songs. I’m sorry, but I’m really, really sick of “Just The Way You Are” by Bruno Mars. Apologies if you’ve chosen this song for something during your wedding. I just do dozens of events every year and I’m aiming for something less common.

But ignore my hypocritical ass because I love the shit out of “A Thousand Years” by Christina Perri. It makes me choke up every time. I’m sure you’ll find something to love on this LGBTQIA+ wedding playlist. These songs are on repeat for me!

Any, enjoy, follow my gender-neutral playlist, and have fun!


Walking Down The Aisle Songs

Audrey Hepburn – Moon River

Queen – Love of My Life

He is We – Skip to the Good Part

He Is We – Tell Me

Sam Smith – Latch (Acoustic)

The Beatles – Here Comes the Sun

Brett Every – What a Beautiful Day

Sara Bareilles – I Choose You

Train – Marry Me

Bright Eyes – First Day of My Life

Keane – Somewhere Only We Know

Norah Jones – Come Away with Me

Miley Cyrus – Obsessed

Adele – Make You Feel My Love

Calvin Harris – Feel So Close

Temper Trap – Sweet Disposition

Haley Reinhart – Can’t Help Falling In Love

Snow Patrol – Chasing Cars


First Dance Songs

Savage Gardens – Truly Madly Deeply

Jason Mraz – I’m Yours

Christina Perri – A Thousand Years (this song makes me cry EVERY time I hear it)

David Gray – This Years Love

Etta James – At Last

Death Cab for Cutie – I Will Follow You into the Dark

Stevie Wonder – For once in my life

Arro Verse – Marry Me

Extreme – More Than Words

Jason Mraz – Love Someone

Ray LaMontagne – You Are the Best Thing

The Beatles – I Will

Calum Scott – You Are the Reason

Cat Power – Sea of Love

Louis Futon – Restless Sea

OTR – Bliss

Last Dance Songs

Little Mix – Secret Love Songs, Pt II

John Legend – All of Me

Ella Henderson – Yours

Sam Smith – Latch

Ellie Goulding – Love Me Like You Do

Maren Morris – The Bone (loooove this song)

Culture Club – Love is Love

Mariah Carey – Dreamlover

LP – When We’re High

Billie Eilish – Ocean Eyes

Labrinth – Sexy MF (dirty but upbeat)

Ellie Goulding – Your Song

Glass Animals – Heat Waves



Ben Folds – The Luckiest

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